Hello All,
Everyone is welcome to comment here if you follow a few simple rules. No Spam! That means don’t link to a site that sells other products. If you want to exchange links, that is possible, provided you really do add a link to my page from yours. Otherwise, your comment will be marked as spam.
I apologizse to those who actually do read this blog and leave genuine comments if this sounds too ‘bitchy’, however I do not want comments that are just spam. I believe in exchanging links, but not a one way link.
ravnone1
Hello All,
As promised earlier today, I finally finished my ebook and it’s now for sale. Go to http://ninaslone.info/valentines_index.html
Enjoy!
Nina
Hi All,
I made a new animated gif for Valentine’s Day. I didn’t even know I could make an animated graphic in Photoshop CS4. Wow! It turned out good, and I am pleased with it especially since it is the first time I tried to make one.
I have a new ebook coming out in a few days, about Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas. I hope you all like it.
Nina
There are times, unfortunately that we must end a relationship. That seems kind of strange to say since I’m selling an e-Book about how to stop a breakup. But facts are facts, and if we need to end a relationship, then so be it. There are others in our future. There was for me.
I’ve been through a few relationships, and since I have ADHD, which is Attention Deficit Disorder with Hyperactivity for those of you who don’t know, it is hard to maintain a relationship. Unfortunately, I would end up with a selfish person who just didn’t care about me enough to learn about ADHD. They also didn’t care enough to accept me as I am. I went through years of people trying to change me. I am tired of that crap. Accept me or get the hell out of my face.
I left one such person in VT who really didn’t care about me. Oh he acted like he did while he needed surgury and while he got back on his feet. When he no longer needed a nursemaid, he made it pretty clear that he didn’t want me, just my money by his actions, words and constant whining about money. I left.
I have since then met KC who does love me for myself and accepts me as I am. He thinks I’m intriguing. I am back in KY and I am happy.
If you are being abused physically, sexually, mentally or emotionally then you should leave. You deserve better. If you don’t grow together, you’ll grow apart. I am in love and I am loved. I am accepted and I am happy. Happiness is inside of us, but another person can certainly add to our happiness, although I too am in the habit of saying, “You make me so happy!”
For more about this post, please read my post entitled, “To break up or not”. I do believe in working on a relationship and working out differences, and occaisonally making compromises as long as it doesn’t involve screwing around with my integrity. Otherwise, it won’t work.
Until next time,
ravnone1
I will be sooo glad when I graduate. I really need a break from all this. I also think it’s time for me to return to WV or KY. I think it’s unlikely that this will last for long. You can’t expect a house of cards to not topple with the first strong wind. And for you who know me, I usually do end up rocking the boat. Oh well…
Shouldn’t have lied to me.
In other words, to be true to one self, or not. I first met my bf a couple of years ago. But I felt it wasn’t a good match, and he wanted to stay here while I wanted to move south. Since then, I met him again and decided to give it a try. I truly wish I hadn’t. He has apparently been putting on quite an act. I guess I was just too vulnerable to see the truth. He was the way he portrayed himself to be until he had surgury. He was helpful with many things, I should say most things. Then came his surgury, and I played nursemaid because there was no one else to take care of him. And he used to gripe about me doing everything. I figure it this way, it’s through good and bad, or not at all.
But since then, he doesn’t want to do much of anything. That was in Oct. He does outside work, and pushes himself even though he knows he isn’t supposed to. Then he sits or lays around whining about being in pain. I ignore it. It’s his own damn fault. He doesn’t help me with anything anymore. He doesn’t want me doing things that he knows I know how to do. I personally think it’s a power play. He makes chauvanistic remarks about women. He’s hypercritical of everyone else. Personally I’ve had enough of this crap.
I hope to hang in there long enough to graduate in Sept this year. Then I’m outta here. I don’t think he’s going to be like he was when we first met, I think he’s just gone back to his ‘old self’, in other words, his true self. I’m not asking him to change. By the same token, I’m not going to stop being myself just because he expects me to be like everyone else. I have ADHD, and OCD as well as migraines. I still keep on and I’ll keep on keepin’ on.
I mean, people, I don’t mean to be disrespectful, but enough is enough. I’ve had enough.
ravnone1
Hi All,
Are you concerned about your relationship? Then go to http://howto-stop-a-breakup.info
Nina
